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Saturday, August 30, 2008
__* 12.19 am .`+
counting down .. 17 more days to darkness .. are you feeling the same ?

just now should have gone OCH with Bestie , but didnt go . cause tmr i dun hab off .. somemore bleeding downstairs , so damn shag . lols .. sorry . i also damn dulan lor .. haiis . mood swing like fcuk onli .. sometimes feel like dying .. and leaving every burden behind me . if only you gave me the courage to .

~ { Saturday, August 30, 2008 }
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Tuesday, August 26, 2008
__* 1.15 am .`+
today i told Moon , "without him , i also can live well lor .." but dunno why feeling somehow hurt inside . just "cake teng teng" nia .. stupid .. haiis . so boring at work , not many customer . slack here and there .. keep running out go smoke with friends . Chia Wai came down .. Wei Ru came down .. still got who ? haha . no more lahs .. then after work go watch movie at Causeway with Wei Ru , Ben , Si Min . lame lahs , cause they all waiting for me off work then by the time finish my work alrdy what time liao . go inside see half of the show only .. "4bia" become "2bia" lahs ! lol . cause we only managed to catch the last 2 stories .. Wei Ru said he treat them watch , cause he want them to accompany us . haas .. really thanks for making such efforts . but nevermind la , he rich mah .. LOL . but just now that movie is NOT enough to compensate me for putting me stupid big bomb yesterday ok ! anyway , tmr he booking in liao .. see him again in 2 weeks' time bah .

today got guy call and said he got my contact from me a year ago in town .. now then contact me ! LAME sial . dont even know is real or not .. cause i seldom give contacts to guy one lor . but anyway , meet liao then see is real or not . see when free lahs .. not important also . now single good sial .. want meet who jiu meet who . want do what also nobody can care ! so carefree lor .. maybe i'll get used to such life soon .

tmr working with Rojak . today come alot stocks sial .. good ! tmr no need talk with him .. LOL . can slowly do my own things .. work , work and WORK ! keep myself fcuking busy and occupied .. think of nothing else more .. nothing to make me upset .. remind myself to laugh always . be a clown and make people happy .. i just hope all friends around me nvr to be sad .

Love is .. Seeing the one u loved dearly , having found his own happiness .. & with tears in ur eyes , pretending to be happy for them , no matter how hurt u may be feeling deep down ; Knowing that he will never ever again , yours to be .

~ { Tuesday, August 26, 2008 }
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Sunday, August 24, 2008
__* 6.49 .`+
its hard for me to really settle down and love someone whole-heartedly again .
i have not found anyone whose worth my tears ..


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~ { Sunday, August 24, 2008 }
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i rather lose people who love & dote me , than to accept without treating them same . i rather coop myself at home than to hang out with guys .

~ { Sunday, August 24, 2008 }
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Thursday, August 21, 2008

i dont wish to be with anyone for just this 1 month before my ex comes out . cause i dont wanna make use of anyone to kill my boredom ! i must NOT be selfish nor self-centred .. as much as anyone wants to be with me , i will not deceive myself .

~ { Thursday, August 21, 2008 }
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Wednesday, August 20, 2008
__* 2.59 am .`+
today i wanna talk about my Bestie aka Jolyn the Bitch .. since she now staying over at my place .. haas . suddenly thought of blogging this down . actually this has always been in my heart , just that im not someone who knows how to express myself well .. so here goes :

thanks for everything that u'd done for me , Bitch . though only last year that we have met each other once again after such a long time .. but really , u were the only friend who treated me best . in the past , i was always the one who treat friends better than how they treated me .. and i was the one who stand to lose everything in the end . but after meeting you again .. i start to realise that in this world , there are much more important things than Love . i always thought that i couldnt live without Love , but i was wrong . ever since the broke-up with Tiger , you were the only one who's always there for me during my ups-and-downs .. i had changed so many boyfriends liao , but i nvr change you away ! haas . often i tell my guy friends about you .. i tell them how u'd always remember to buy things for me whenever ur shopping . im really touched .. cause no matter where u are , u always remember me . thanks alot . thanks for always being there to listen to my problems .. and to see me cry , hearing my sulkings and all . though sometimes we might quarrel over different point of views , but in the end we always managed to make it up and bury the hatchet . cause both of us know the importance of each other .. lols . BHB sial . =x ohhs , we shall never part , ok ? so .. till death do us part ! i mean , our friendship lahs .. =) i love you , Bestie .

continue another day ok .. cause the Bitch is making noise already . she want to sleep ler , so do i .. the time is 3.12 am . tmr still gotta work with the Boss ! omfg man . hahas ~ adios !

~ { Wednesday, August 20, 2008 }
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Tuesday, August 19, 2008
__* 1.57 am .`+
fell sick today during work . & still , now . tmr will be a boring day working , cause nvr work with Michelle before . maybe tmr she will play MC then i'll work with Boss ? haas . but also not much strength to care liao . so tired .. dont wish to reply any sms . didnt got enough sleep these few days .. it's like always feel not so sleepy when i reach back home .

3 more days .. and it's the 1st year i'd been living without him .
why am i still thinking of someone who wont be back ?

~ { Tuesday, August 19, 2008 }
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Monday, August 18, 2008
__* 1.40 am .`+
just reached home not long . havent bathe yet . just now after work went to slack with Jolyn , Den , Chia Wai , at Civic Centre Mac there . damn sian lor .. haiis . nowadays like alot things i see , are related to "him" . dont know why recently really damn ALOT sial . maybe he's trying to remind me to remember him every now and then .. lols . tmr working with Bestie . the day after , work with Michelle .. work , work and still , WORK ! think going to break down sooner or later liao . like become workaholic .. no life no nothing .

today Ice msg me saying he will wait for me and shits like that , he wont give up on me so easy . but i told him that everything's too late now .. i will wait for "him" no matter what . i'd already missed the chance before , and i aint gonna lose it this time . i just dont wish to regret for the rest of my life .. i may be fooling around as usual , but it's not what it seems to be . try to look deeper into my eyes , perhaps you'll still find a trace of tear left behind somewhere ..

this coming 21st , will be the 1st year of our broke-up . how fast time flies ..

~ { Monday, August 18, 2008 }
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Saturday, August 16, 2008
__* 1.56 am .`+
why Jeffrey call me Da-Sao when Bee told him im Tiger's ex ? actually i dont really know who Jeffrey was , but i was indeed shocked to hear that too . Sandra said that Jeffrey and Tiger was locked up in the same room or something like that . so did Tiger told him things about us ? or is Jeffrey just calling for fun ? sianz . yesterday didnt went to dye hair cause went down to CCK meet Sandra and Bee . eat together with them then after that thought got go down zouk with Bee . but was cancelled in the end , so i cabbed home .. before i took a cab , i walked from Bee's place to Keat Hong . i walked alone .. walking past Tiger's place . i on my phone mp3 , and the 1st song was coincidentally playing "Elliot Yamin - Wait For You " .. i didnt felt as sad . i just missed the path which i always took to work from his place when i was still working at Lot 1 . i wasnt tired , i was merely upset to be back at CCK to be remind of the past .. sigh . guess i really need some time to be alone ..

~ { Saturday, August 16, 2008 }
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Friday, August 15, 2008
__* 2.11 am .`+

today's message is ..

"Sorry. But i really wish that you will talk more with me. It seems to me that you are starting to avoid me cause you dun wish to treat me as a sub. But i wish that you will give me a chance. I will make you love me for who i am. You know it yourself that he broke with you before he went in and he has no feelings for you. I wont ask you to give up on him. But at least give me a chance to make you accept me."



~ { Friday, August 15, 2008 }
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Thursday, August 14, 2008
__* 1.47 am .`+
im just not ready for anyone new .. i really dont wish to make myself believe that i saw "him" in CW . it's just a part of my wishful thinkings that i could find someone as similar to replace him in my heart . i know this is stupid .. cause even "he" comes out , he might lie to me saying he still love me and stuffs like that , then patch with me even if he dont have feelings for me anymore . cause he can make use of me .. but i really dont know . haiis . i thought of alot things .. i kept asking friend to help talk to him like say my good things after he comes out . but .. i know in the end , only i can help myself .

sigh . sometimes i really feel like crying my heart out .. it's like he left me for such a long time liao . though during this 1 year i got flirt around , but u really think im feeling good inside ? he just dump everything and went in sit .. leaving me with no answer and no nothing .. with no directions to go .. u really think im happily outside enjoying myself too ? .. i tried to disguise myself , finding new boyfriends like changing clothes cause i really dont want others to think that im so weak in the inside .. knn , he break with me alrdy even before he went in then why should i be foolishly waiting for him . right ? somemore if he really loves me , then he wont do knn things like going out with girls liao lor . i keep telling myself that i had misunderstood him in the past .. i keep telling myself he loves me , and he really never do anything that let me down . but whats the use ?! things will never be the same as before lor . hais . fcuk love !!!

because of my stubborness , i'd hurt another again .. im really really sorry .. i really must wait for him to tell me the answer , before i step into a new r/s .

~ { Thursday, August 14, 2008 }
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Monday, August 11, 2008
__* 2.21 am .`+
All pictures were edited by Jolyn the Bitch . lols !







came back home as usual after slacking with Jolyn awhile at SK nearby her place .. today sales was terrible ! haas . but fcuk care la , sales go up and down .. aint much of my concern anyway . work is boring lahs .. the longer i work , the more boring is this job . but what to do ? nobody support mah . haas ~

these few days nvr contact with Ming Shun or Wei Ru liao . Ming Shun asked me not to message him if i dont miss him .. & not to say i miss him if i dont wanna be with him . lame sial ! so , good lor . might as well dont contact him liao . then Wei Ru i also nvr call liao , cause he everytime say because Ming Shun nvr call or sms me then i call him up one .. then fine lor ! all dont sms or call . lols .. then just now Wei Ru suddenly call me . say what he wanna see me now ah .. he AWOL nvr book in etc . damn bo liao sial .. but in the end , he say he called cause the following entire week they going out field then cannot book out . also , he wont be bringing his hp along so he called me for the last time before he go lor .. dots ! he think like that very funny ehs .

now is all dont contact then good . if not later they think i like them ah .. blah blahs ! then later quarrel among themselves become my fault .. lols . anyway , now also not really so much into guys liao . Chia Wai still got call me .. but i also busy working and stuffs . so bored lor . tmr working with Roger .. like FUCK only ! btw , today help Bestie pierced her LOW-brets . nice sial .. she did the markings herself . hees . but also must see who pierce one mah . =X

~ { Monday, August 11, 2008 }
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Saturday, August 09, 2008
__* 3.02 am .`+
yesterday forgot to bring extra money to go out with Bestie after work , so borrowed from Wei Ru . he couldnt find friends to transfer me , and he went downstairs himself to transfer me .. thanks alot . he really treats friends very good .. Roy asked me to be his girl , but i rejected ler . i just couldnt bring myself to hurt anyone again , when in my heart there's only a place for "him" . this time , i really made up my mind to wait .. even flings , i also dont have liao . not interested in any others . my heart will only die when he tells me in the face that he dont want me anymore ..

kingsley replied my letter liao . he's now in DB . nothing much , just sending of some regards ..

sorry Bestie , made you angry just now .. glad that things are okay between us now . i really never do anything that let myself down .. anyway , nice hairdo uhs ? haax . and ohh ya , i got my hair rebonded . and fcuk sial . my fringe is gone .. looks so dumb now .

dunno why people always like to ask me why i cannot forget "him" .. he treat you good ? aiyaa . dont ask me why .. i just wanna love him with every beat of my heart . maybe because that's a promise that's yet to be fufilled .. & a promise that i'd made to wait for him no matter what .

~ { Saturday, August 09, 2008 }
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Wednesday, August 06, 2008
__* 3.07 am .`+
sorry . i wanna love someone new again too , but time doesnt allows me to .. dont wait for me cause im not worth it . lets just forget everything about me ..

rashes on my tattoo are getting worse .. didnt bother to apply any medical cream either . fcuking itchy .. kept scratching during work . & every now and then lah .. arghs ! damn it . today worked with Bestie .. bought a $29.90 leather stud belt and form the word "slut" to accompany her taking her "bitch" buckle . lols .. so expensive la dey .

then after work , Bestie help me pierce my other cheek .. now i finally have a balance pierced cheeks . mwahahs ! arbo so funny lor . people kept asking why i dont want pierce the other one .. arbo is say very weird looking with 1 cheek pierced nia . then fine lor .. now i pierced both , so all can shut up liao ok ? -_-" after piercing , went to Mustafa with her .. didnt manage to get anything , cause i really dont need anything much now . Bestie bought herself a shirt and some food lahs . afterwhich we went to eat prata .. and then finally cabbed home . nothing special to blog about today ..

gotta go sleep liao . these few days kept sleeping at 4 plus .. working can fall asleep sial . haas ! good nights ~

~ { Wednesday, August 06, 2008 }
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Monday, August 04, 2008
__* 12.09 am .`+
now at home again , just finished eating . asked daddy to packet food for me cause i didnt had my dinner at work .. today Sandra's last day at Bluez . damn sad .. haiis . but no choice lahs . it's like this one . once u work long enough in a company , u'll get to see lots of colleagues come and go .. the reason why i still stay on is cause im still waiting for someone who'll be out next month . also cause my bestie is there lahs .. =x tmr will be working with bestie Jolyn and Karen the new girl . work with Jolyn .. i'm really happy , no matter what .

today never run anywhere . i'd decided liao , dont want any more flings .. i just wanna find someone who loves me for who i am . and i think .. maybe i dont know . but maybe there's someone like that . well , but i'll choose a good one . =] but now's not the time .. hope i can be able to hold my temptations till next month . if really no hope between "us" , then i'll give up ..

today's last phrase on the phone was .. "oie .. i really like you .. byebye ."

~ { Monday, August 04, 2008 }
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__* 12.48 am .`+
just finished bathing . just now after work , slack around at wdls awhile with Roy . didnt thought he come down find me , cause he said he going back camp instead .. then , he lied to me and suddenly come down . dont know is suppose to be happy or angry .. we slacked awhile , before he got to rush back to camp before 2359 . he kept jokingly asked me to be his girl .. talk lots of craps . then in the end before we part , he said "wei , you really think im joking with you ah .. want be my girl or not ?" .. i said to sms then talk about it . he asked if i like him .. i replied okok only lor . then we skipped away the topic liao . lolols ~ crazy . just know him not long ago , then ask me be his gf .. say what he 1st time saw me then crush on me ler . rubbish sial ! now still in trend such nonsense one meh ? anyway , he said he told Wei Ru that he's coming down to meet me . i think Wei Ru must be damn angry lahs .. hais . i know he treat me very good .. he's a nice guy . but really lahs , no mood to wanna have feelings for anyone now . somemore next coming month is critical sial . Tiger coming out soon .. damn stress .

Chia Wai today came down to find me suddenly during work . scare me .. lols . went smoke break awhile with him , before he go watch movie with his friends . he asked me if i wanna join , but i rejected . too tired liao wanna go home rest lor .

so after everything , here i am back at home ! weets .

wahhs .. kns . just talked about Wei Ru , then he sms me liao . wthh ? but dont know if he knows abt just now Roy meeting me or not .. haas . and u know what ? right now Roy sms me too . 2 people messaging me at the same time , and they both are inside camp and just sleeping beside each other nia . what the fcuk ?! damn funny sial ..

~ { Monday, August 04, 2008 }
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Friday, August 01, 2008
__* 1.11 am .`+
i still miss you . and i'd nvr stop loving you even after ..

what are you doing now ?
are you thinking of me too , and wishing we could go back to where we started ?

~ { Friday, August 01, 2008 }
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